Prejudge

What’s new about this? Ppl like to judge other ppl. They thought this .. + they thought that. But mostly .. they thought wrong. How can u be broad minded when u keep judging ur surroundings. Face the fact. Nothing will come out easy in life + nothing is ever meant to be perfect. Prejudge will only lead to bad things. Trust me. The basic rule to do judging is by knowing that person thoroughly without any bias. Then we can call it fair. Prejudge can only give damage to a relationship + also ruining ur mentality. If this keep on going … how can u possibly find a guy that u can luv all ur heart + accept him wholly? U see .. I might missed ur Mr. Right by ur own biasness. See .. this is that kinda human mistake that we can avoid doing which will eventually give us a big lost.

Monopoly

U dun have to be always right. It’s allkay to make mistakes. To err is human. Ppl always have their own opinion on everything.. their own way of thinking. But that doesn’t give u the right to strictly appoint ppl to follow ur way. May be ur points are correct + sharp. Yet … they might not suits the situation arise + may not applicable to certain ppl who totally have a different perceptions. We can only share our mind + thoughts. But at the end of the day .. it’s them themselves will figure out either to digest or take it as another good explanations. Dun yell and say “U’ve just did the biggest mistake in ur life by not listening to me”. No no no.. that is not right. Period. Other ppl have choices to make + if they make their choice by not following ur term .. so be it. They might just thought of other options that relates them better.

Soulmate

Herm .. this is a tough topic. Well .. u can never get too rush when it comes about finding ur soulmate. Trust me … whatever things u’ve learn at school .. is not applicable for this one here. being in a relationship is like being in another new world. If u are a positive person .. everything will go on easily. But if u always try to find mistakes in the r’ship + try to be the one who always correct about things … trust me .. one day .. she’ll burst + tell u how such an idiot u’ve been. It’s always about sharing + minding each other. Do mind all her words + do mind her swing mood. Same goes to u grrls. Doesn’t mean he/she luv u head over heels u can just take charge of the r’ship. Remember .. it takes 2 to tango. Always listen to her … never try to understand her coz u never will but luv her unconditionally. That’s what she needs. As a gf .. never be too hard on ur man (konon nak tunjuk pride). I notice grrls always wanna try to be equal with their bf. Well babe … it’s not ur must-do. U don’t have to be equal. It’s allkay to let them be a head of u .. coz that the nature. What important is that … for him to respect u + accept u as equivalent. Ur man will treat u like one if u urself kno how to respect urself + not try to make a fool out of urself by giving out such statements like …. “I don’t think u’ve understand me enough” or “how can u say u luv me if u can understand me?”. Ouh please. Ur man is nothing but luving u + always try his best to please u. but dun u think u are the one who is ungrateful enough?

Despite all those luv-reports .. these couples of months have been such a tough ride for me. It’s not like what u think, allkay? I am still very gay + still so much in luv. But . sumthing else much more crazy than me had happened + still on-going I must say. If u ask me .. I’m telling u .. it’s a bad news for me. Nothing about it is enjoyable. Allkay … next!!

Point to ponder :

Never take r’ship as one of ur “must do”. When u see it that way .. automatically .. whenever reality strikes .. u’ll lose faith. Relationship is a bond between u + the person that u truly luv+cherish. Celebrate the bond. Just do whatever it takes u to hold the r’ship strong+meaningful. But remember .. hold it tight. Once u lose it .. it means nothing else than to back off!

Yes!! Ppl would say fight for ur luv. Show to that person how serious u r with her + how much she meant to u. yadayada. But remember …. What if u are the one who back off from the r’ship at 1^st? Especially … on a bad term? Everything will turn ugly. We all kno that one well enough. So when this kinda case happened.. the formula “never give up” is not applicable for this one. Obviously u’ve shown one part of ur jerk-ness. Begging+pleading+sending her all the apology emails won’t make any difference. And if the grrl already moved on + found herself the big apple .. please please please don’t make a fool out of urself + try to be a man by trying to hit on her AGAIN. Ops .. not cool!

Try to get all ur sense together..

• she’s abso-freakin’-lutely in luv with her current bf
• the current bf is way way better than u
• he’s more stable minded that u
• he takes a good care of her
• + worst .. u were the one who betrayed on her so she has all the reason not to give u the 2^nd chance.

So .. which part of those is so hard for u to digest? Guys .. please .. be a man this time. Don’t be selfish by trying to win her back coz u feel u can’t leave without her. Have u forgotten the fact that u were the one who ditch her + perhaps 2-time her? Hah .. what a funny relation.

To tell u the truth .. I dunno where am I going with this topic. Just sum advise from me. Drop it while u can. Dun make a fool out of urself. If u really care for her .. let her go .. let her have her happiness with that man of her choice. + if u are one lucky bastard (sorry) .. maybe she’ll turn back to u when her r’ship didn’t work out. But in the mean time. Get ur arse out of her sight. I think I’ve advise u clear. I’m outta here!!